Having money can really change your life.
Suddenly receiving $100,000 can really change a person’s life. It sure changed mine.
In 2002, both my grandmother and father died, which left me with an inheritance of around $100,000. Six years later, all of that money is gone. So how can a person go from $100,000 to $0 in six years? Here are my ten “easy steps”:
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- 1.Don’t Track Spending
- 2. Don’t Put Anything into Savings
- 3. “Invest” in Collectibles in Which You Have No Expertise
- 4. Go Out to Eat Frequently
- 5. Go Out to the Movies Frequently
- 6. Buy DVDs
- 7. Buy Expensive Computer Software You Will Never Use
- 8. Buy the Latest and Greatest Electronics
- 9. Pursue Education on a Gut Feeling
- 10. Don’t Pursue Worthwhile Investment Opportunities
1.Don’t Track Spending
I can’t honestly tell you where all of the $100,000 went because I didn’t keep records of my spending. A simple summary of my monthly expenses might have acted as a warning to me that my spending was getting out of hand.
2. Don’t Put Anything into Savings
I didn’t keep any of my inheritance in savings accounts that would earn me interest. How would things look differently if I did? Currently, I have a savings account through FNBO Direct that gives me 3.25% APY in interest. I’ll just use that number for my hypothetical calculations. If I had put $10,000 of my inheritance in a savings account with a 3.25% APY interest rate, six years later I would have $12,115.47. If I had put $25,000 into a similar savings account, six years later I would have $30,288.68. That’s over $5,000 in interest that I could’ve received.
3. “Invest” in Collectibles in Which You Have No Expertise
I had heard about how some people had made a lot of money by collecting comic books so I decided to give this a try. Each month, I would buy three copies of brand new issues of comic books that seemed interesting to me. The first copy was for immediate reading. The second copy was for selling a year later. And the third copy was for selling at some future date. I ended up not even reading any of the comic books because I discovered that you could later buy hardbound versions that had several issues inside. I spent over $2000 on comic books. Recently, I decided to do some investigating on how much they were worth. I checked eBay to see what prices other people were selling the same issues for and sadly found out that most of my comic books were selling for below their original price. My problem was that I had no expertise in comic book collecting and I was buying comic books that were not going to appreciate in value.
4. Go Out to Eat Frequently
Almost every Friday night, my brother and I would go out to eat, usually at a local steakhouse. I would pay for both of us and would often leave a nice tip for the server. With the check and the tip, I was often spending $40 each week or $160 a month. We would also often grab fast food once or twice a week for an additional $10 to $25 or $40 to $100 a month.
By the way, you know you’re going out to eat too often when the servers know you by name and know what you want even before you order.
5. Go Out to the Movies Frequently
I’m a big movie buff so those same Fridays that my brother and I would go out to eat, we would usually go to the movie theater to see the latest blockbuster. We didn’t go to the cheap matinees or the dollar theaters so we were paying about $15 for two tickets. And even though we had already eaten dinner or were going to eat after the movie, we always felt compelled to at least buy two large sodas for an additional $5. I was spending $20 week or $80 a month on my movie addiction. I still love movies but I haven’t been to a theater in over two years. I would go again but way less frequently and I would only go to matinees or dollar theaters.
6. Buy DVDs
My spending on my movie addiction didn’t end with going to the theater. Our Friday night dinner and movie excursions were at the local mall so my brother and I would check out our favorite shops which usually included the DVD place. For some reason, I felt strange leaving the DVD store empty-handed so we would often browse for a long time until I found something that looked interesting enough to buy. I would spend anywhere from $30 to $60 on DVDs (the high end was if I bought a complete season of a television show I liked) so each month I was spending $120 to $240 on DVDs.
I later realized that I was only watching many of these DVDs once or twice so I decided to try to sell many of them (mostly the complete season television shows) at a used DVD store. At the most, I would only get about 30% of the original cost. Now I spend about $18 a month on a Netflix subscription. I can have three DVDs out at a time and can rent as many as I want. I figure if I do want to watch a DVD more than once I can always rent it again.
7. Buy Expensive Computer Software You Will Never Use
I’m a 3D digital computer artist so I decided to buy a really nice 3D computer software package called Cinema 4D. Beside the main program, you can buy additional modules that increase the functionality. Since most of these modules looked really cool, I bought the complete Cinema 4D bundle that cost about $2,500. Five years later, I still don’t use the software because the learning curve is fairly steep and I haven’t invested the time needed to learn it. I mostly use a software package called Bryce that was much cheaper at around $100. It doesn’t do everything Cinema 4D does but I can still make some cool 3D artwork with it.
I also bought an expensive Adobe software package that included Photoshop, Illustrator, Premiere, and After Effects. The only one of these programs I use much is Photoshop and to tell you the truth I more often use its cheaper competitor Paint Shop Pro.
8. Buy the Latest and Greatest Electronics
I was interested in a digital camera so I quickly bought an Olympus camera that at the time was fairly high-end at 5 megapixels. Between the camera and the accessory package, I paid over $800. I recently bought an 8 megapixel Canon camera (that has excellent reviews) and similar accessory package for my brother for only $200. If I waited a little bit longer, I could have saved a lot of money. I also made similar foolish purchases with a computer and a camcorder and I still haven’t used the camcorder.
9. Pursue Education on a Gut Feeling
In 1991, I had to leave college because I got sick and had to start using a ventilator to help me breathe. I always felt guilty for having not completed my degree, so now that I had money and distance learning was more available, I applied for the Bachelor of Arts in Ministry program through Prairie Bible Institute. I signed up for an initial two courses, Adolescent Psychology and Introduction to the New Testament. Tuition and books for the two courses cost around $1500. I soon discovered I didn’t have the discipline to study at my own pace and never finished the courses.
10. Don’t Pursue Worthwhile Investment Opportunities
When I had about $20,000 left, I decided I should try to at least invest $5,000 to $10,000 in a mutual fund. From some research, I knew that some mutual funds had very little risk and would most likely be a good investment. I contacted a financial services ministry that is connected with my church’s denomination to get some advice on various mutual fund options. He gave me some good ideas, but I never pursued investing in mutual funds. Even putting some money in CDs would have meant a bit of a return on my money, but I didn’t pursue that either.
I’m not saying I spent all of the $100,000 foolishly. I did tithe to my church and was able to help them upgrade the air conditioning system and buy a much-needed projection screen. I was able to self-publish a book of devotional messages and record a CD of Christian Contemporary and Christian Rock songs I wrote or co-wrote. I was also able to help my brother when he was having financial difficulties. But $100,000, if used wisely, should have lasted a lot longer than six years. Hopefully, if you come into a large sum of money, you can remember my story and make better decisions than I did. I also suggest reading personal finance blogs like Peter’s. They are helping me make better choices regarding my money. It’s not $100,000 any more, but some day it may be.
the girl @ love God, not money says
You know, I’ve never come into that much money, but this post kind of opened my eyes to the potential of all the money I do spend. It’s a lot easier to look at in terms of “I had $100,000, and I spent it all on movies,” but I wonder how many of us are in the same position, only it’s “I spend all my money on eating out, but if I didn’t, I could have $100,000.”
Jason, thanks so much for sharing. As Christians, it’s so wonderful that God can redeem our mistakes and failures for His glory. Even though I’m sure you must feel frustrated at times, how great is it that now you’re sharing your struggles in a way that may help others? Praise the Lord!
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Jason Mitchener says
Thank you. Yes, God can indeed redeem our mistakes. And yes it frustrating at times. I now see great programs like Kiva and think “Wow, how many people in Third World countries I could’ve helped with even a small portion of that $100,000.” I still do things like Kiva though, but it’s amounts like $25.
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Amber C says
When I was younger I use to order take out from the Chinese restuarant so often that every worker than answered the phone knew me and my order just by the sound of my voice.
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Mr. ToughMoneyLove says
I’m sure that this was a tough story to tell so thanks for telling it. Everyone can learn important lessons from your experience. If it makes you feel any better, many lottery winners have burned up a lot more money than you did.
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Hotwired says
Good post Jason.
I can see myself a couple of years ago in in your behaviour.
I got into financial difficulty (I did not start with 100 000!) and with some hard work got myself back into ‘positive equity’.
I now have money to spare and find it has more value when spent wisely.
I purchased many books until I calculated it would take me another sixty years to read them all. Watch for me on ebay – at least whatever I get for my books will be profit now I have sorted my finances.
G_d Bless you Jason for pointing me in the direction of this website,(and, after browsing this site – with all its financial advice – All you other contributors).
Travis Russell says
Well, I will tell you that My ex-wife and I sold a house a few years ago and we blew through $100K in a year…..I have no idea where most of it went…my ex wife was and still is great at making money but much better at spending it…
Jason Mitchener says
Travis, yeah I don’t know where a lot of my money went. Thus the importance of tracking spending.
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Andy says
Great post…It is sad that you frittered away $100K, but the lessons you learnt (and shared with others) will mean your next 100K will be much better managed.
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Jason Mitchener says
Thanks, Andy. I do think my next $100K will be much better managed.
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J. Money says
incredible! i love how you’re so open and honest with everything – MUCH better for future sucess :)
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Jason Mitchener says
Thank you. I hope this post helps others too.